faq

WHAT'S THE DEAL?

grant and niki are combining their birthdays to have one big party on saturday, june 4. it will be in niki's back yard at [REDACTED].expect afternoon lawn games, dj sets by grant, lots to eat and drink and dinner in the evening! rain or shine :-)note: please plan to take a covid rapid test at home before you come over! if you need one, let us know and we can give you one when you get here. thank you!

IS THERE A DRESS CODE?

our dress code/theme is "whatever formal means to you" -- ballgown or tuxedo? cool. your Least Stained Jeans? also great. bedsheet ghost? toga? ren faire cosplay? suit jacket with bathing suit bottoms? you do you. we want you to be comfortable and feel like you look great!!

SHOULD I BRING ANYTHING?

just yourself! please let us know of any dietary restrictions by May 27.in lieue of bringing a six pack we’d love for you to support The Trevor Project or any cause important to you

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we're getting married (legally)

details:
monday | august 26 | 2023
3:30pm - 4:30pm
Boston Public Library
Guastavino Room

the wedding: getting married on our actual wedding day would be a name change nightmare so we've booked a 1 hour timeslot to hold a marriage ceremony at the BPL!they only do this on monday's during the day so we understand if you can't make it - but if you can, we'd love to have you there with us and to take you out for a drink afterward!!you should bring: yourself! we're not allowed to have any props or outside food so wear something cute (so we can take some photos together) and duck out of work early (or take a half day like we probably will).secret: we are probably not telling our families that we're doing this so that they don't get weird and jealous. we would appreciate you not mentioning this outside of the wedding party so that our moms don't find out and get really mad at us ❤❤❤